Tag Archives: communication

Communication is Hard!

I’ve been rather miserable.  My conversation with Treun the other day was something that broke my heart.  Thinking that he didn’t want to marry me brought up all kinds of nasty realizations about myself.  First, I realized that I really do NOT know how to communicate in this relationship.  I still have so much baggage …

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The Reason I’m Angry

I was talking to Endellion tonight again and I figured something out.  I figured out why I’m so very angry with Sean.  It is an intense anger and I’m just starting to figure it out. I’m angry because not only did his decisions take my friend away from me, but his decisions took a possible …

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Analyzing What Happened

Once again, Endellion had some very good insights for me about the way things happened with Sean.  She texted me while I was at work to see if I wanted to chat on Skype and talk through this.  She had some things she wanted to share.  I had to get through a few more hours …

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Limiting Your Exposure to The Crazy

Cantata’s divorce was finalized yesterday.  She is in disbelief that it is real because her ex has been horrific through this whole thing.  He texts her probably 10-15 times a day.  He flip-flops between telling her that he loves her and wants her back then blaming her for everything and telling her she is a …

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