Category Archives: Friends

The Wedding!

The day had finally arrived.  Treun and I were getting married!  Our wedding day dawned warm and clear.  It was sunny and beautiful and I was up at an ungodly hour because I was too excited to sleep.  The plan was to arrive at Treun’s house around 9 am so that we could all get …

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Holidays are Weird

Holidays are weird. I don’t have my kids with me at every holiday anymore.  They are now split between time with me and time with Bubba.  I get one Christmas, Bubba gets the next.  He gets one Thanksgiving, I get the next. The kids and I have adapted.  We celebrate Christmas on Christmas Day during …

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My Life Changes

As Peace and I were talking, my phone announced a text.  What could Treun want to tell me now, of all times, after I told him I needed a few days to process him not having deep feelings for me?  Peace had a point – maybe I should open the text and read it before …

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Dear Sean

Dear Sean, Go the fuck away already and stay there!  I don’t want you in my world anymore.  Just leave me be and get out of my head.  Thank you so much. Hope Ok, I won’t actually send that but there it is.  I need him out of my world, out of my head.  I …

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An Old Memory

Treun and I stopped in to visit Arcadia and Elrick today.  It was just a nice afternoon to stop in to visit friends.  We took the back way back to his place and as we were talking, he mentioned how differently my divorce would’ve gone had my parents supported me.  I told him that even …

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Going Back – Part 2

After going back last night, I knew I had to go back into our sub-division in the broad light of day.  I had to drive past our old house.  I had to know that demon has no power over me any longer.  I’d contemplated calling Treun and asking him to go along with me but …

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Drinking with Endellion

Endellion and I had a date Friday night.  It’s been so long since we’ve had an evening to Skype and drink together because I’ve been so busy with Treun.  I feel badly about this and I need to make an effort to make sure that Endellion and I continue our date nights.  I don’t want …

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Cook Out

Treun and I decided to have a joint cook-out. He invited his best friend and I invited Arcadia and Elrick and a couple of other friends. That morning I woke up and started cooking and baking.  I’d thrown away one of my good pots that had gotten destroyed a couple of months ago so I …

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Deconstructing the Second Date

When I got home from my date with Steve, I was talking to Peace and she pointed out a few things to me as I was telling her about my evening. Me: he held me all evening because it was cold, so he had his arm around me. that felt comfortable. i’m not ready to …

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Rewriting Bad Laws

Endellion has been struggling in the past week with some really Bad Laws that she was taught by her mother and her soon-to-be-ex-husband.  Endellion’s and my life parallel each other in many ways and the Bad Laws are another thing we have in common. The Bad Laws that she spoke to me about today are …

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